{"id":3908,"date":"2015-05-20T03:40:16","date_gmt":"2015-05-20T03:40:16","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/?p=3908"},"modified":"2015-05-20T03:40:16","modified_gmt":"2015-05-20T03:40:16","slug":"821pm","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/?p=3908","title":{"rendered":"8:21pm"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I went to bed at 8:21pm tonight. Not to sleep, but to ignore all the other responsibilities staring at me. The laundry that&#8217;s not put away, the layer of food crumbs on the floor, the dishes in the dishwasher (clean) and the sink (dirty). For now they will wait. I basically said &#8220;F-it, I&#8217;m going to do something else that I want to do, which happens to be catching up with a new blog (or two).<\/p>\n<p>So here we are, almost June. We wrapped our WI vacation in late April with more <img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-3903\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/IMG_1063-3-e1432089258200-244x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1063 (3)\" width=\"244\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/IMG_1063-3-e1432089258200-244x300.jpg 244w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/04\/IMG_1063-3-e1432089258200-833x1024.jpg 833w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 244px) 100vw, 244px\" \/>playtime and more time to relax. William got brave enough to ride the four-wheeler with Grandpa Bruce and in a big tractor with Uncle Jim. Christopher got much more comfortable\u00a0with Mike [the border collie] as the week went on, and managed to tolerate him being in fairly close proximity. I wish I could say they settled into sleeping well while we were there, but <a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1122-e1432092103405.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-3910\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1122-e1432092103405-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1122\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1122-e1432092103405-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1122-e1432092103405-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a>Christopher had a rough week. They traveled like champs though, and thankfully for this motion-sick mama, the flights back were much smoother. It would have taken me awhile to work up courage to fly again after the initially rough ride between SLC and Denver.<\/p>\n<p>The week we got back was a whirlwind of catching up on work, getting the house in order, and appointments, before Jason flew out to Boston for a week to do something called &#8220;on-boarding&#8221; with his new team. Basically it sounded like a week of meet-and-greet mixed with learn as much as you can. Before he left we send him to the Dr. for the cold(s) that had been nagging him for 3 weeks. He didn&#8217;t come home with antibiotics like I had hoped, so I spent the week listening to him cough at night and pondering <del>smothering him with a pillow<\/del> errr, sleeping in the basement. The boys also had well-child visits and Christopher got his round of 1 year old shots. Christopher had a mild fever for about 24 hours before his shots which worried me, but thankfully didn&#8217;t turn into anything worse. The week culminated in me putting Jason on an airplane and pretty much having a nervous breakdown\u00a0(more on that in a separate post).<\/p>\n<p>Truth be told, the week he was gone wasn&#8217;t that bad. In a moment of brilliance, Jason had asked a neighbor girl to come help me for about 90 minutes after work\/before bedtime each night and she was my angel. Jason knew I was struggling on the anxiety front, but too stubborn to ask for help. Our neighbor gal is\u00a0a sophomore in HS and lives two houses down. Each night around 6:30 she&#8217;d walk over and spend time playing with the boys or supervising bath time or anything else it took for me to have time to regroup for the next day. Such a blessing!<\/p>\n<p>It rained on and off the entire week Jason was gone, and hasn&#8217;t stopped since. Ironically enough we had just purchased two rain barrels and the storms filled them both the day we brought them home. They&#8217;ve been overflowing ever since! It&#8217;s been a very wet May (by Utah standards) and we&#8217;re still waiting on planting out a few last things in the garden. The good news is that the new perennials I&#8217;ve put in the ground this spring (hostas, a bleeding heart, some creeping phlox, ivy, and hyacinth) should have an easier time getting established with the plentiful water. I&#8217;m sure it will get DRY and we&#8217;ll be missing this weather in a couple months. It&#8217;s funny how you get so used to it being so sunny all the time and after a few cloudy weeks you start to miss it.<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday I took a mental health day (something I plan to do more often) and caught up with my old roommate Tiff. (Flashback to 2005&#8211;she was one of the first 2 people I met in Utah!). She has some mad sewing skills and is going to sew me a new purse and a couple throw-pillow covers. If any of you remember me buying fabric for this project in January you are correct&#8211;it&#8217;s the same project&#8211;life it just insane sometimes. I drove out to Eagle Mountain where she lives, which is much closer to the edge of nowhere than I had imagined. We had lunch and got in some talk therapy about frustrations in both of our lives. I topped off the day with some shopping and even bought myself a couple little presents&#8211;a new CD (Ed Sheeran), a few new plants for the yard, and a terrarium! (This one was $12, how could I say no?).<a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1218-e1432091567509.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-3909\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1218-e1432091567509-275x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1218\" width=\"275\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1218-e1432091567509-275x300.jpg 275w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1218-e1432091567509-940x1024.jpg 940w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 275px) 100vw, 275px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>William is officially 3 and Christopher is officially 1. William is still not potty trained and Christopher is still not walking or talking. I guess we&#8217;re a bit stuck in the mud. On the upside Christopher learned to sleep better the week Jason was out of town and they&#8217;re both still cute! Here are some pictures as a reminder \ud83d\ude42 Until next time. S.~<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1175-e1432092072156.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-3914 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1175-e1432092072156-255x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1175\" width=\"255\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1175-e1432092072156-255x300.jpg 255w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1175-e1432092072156-872x1024.jpg 872w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 255px) 100vw, 255px\" \/><\/a>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-3913 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195-300x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1195\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1195.jpg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1207-e1432092048174.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-3911\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1128-e1432092086254-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1128\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1128-e1432092086254-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1128-e1432092086254-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0\u00a0<img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" size-medium wp-image-3912 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1207-e1432092048174-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"IMG_1207\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1207-e1432092048174-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/IMG_1207-e1432092048174-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p class=\"excerpt\">I went to bed at 8:21pm tonight. Not to sleep, but to ignore all the other responsibilities staring at me. The laundry that&#8217;s not put away, the layer of food crumbs on the floor, the dishes in the dishwasher (clean) and the sink (dirty). For now they will wait. I basically said &#8220;F-it, I&#8217;m going to do something else that&hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/?p=3908\">Read more &rarr;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3908","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","xfolkentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3908"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3918,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3908\/revisions\/3918"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3908"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3908"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/aroundherelately.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3908"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}